Boy, have I been away for a long time! Life kept me buzy. Lots of good things happening. This is not an open dairy - I know that and I keep telling myself - but many good things have happened. And Joy is a thing to be shared. Life as we know isn't always full of fun and happiness - ofcourse! - we appreciate it more because of the days of melancholy, gloom and despondency. There were a lot of sad resentful events taking place around that made me angry - killing of the girl child that was in the news, women safety issues in Delhi or rather the lack of it! Not to forget the dirty politics Ughh! On the personal front there had been a few mini storms blowing. Nothing major but you know how EVERYTHING seems to go wrong when we are in a terrible situation. I'd rather spread joy than wallow in misery and self pity! I'm too good for that :D hehe
I think us humans enjoy drama - there's a reason why those Balaji serials do so well you know! - the feeling you get when the heart skips a beat sort of stimulates the brain in some way! So here's a story -
Ananya had been married for three years and was now a mother to a little baby boy. Her life was perfect - a loving husband, a happy and healthy baby and a promising career. There were some moments when she remembered an old friend... Dhriti. They were close friends during the college years but had fallen out of touch. Ananya partly blamed herself, it was around the time she got married. It was a love marriage, Tanmay - her husband - belonged to a different community ... a different part of the country actually. In a country where the caste system still exists it had taken a lot more than just coaxing her parents to agree to go through the wedding. It had been a quiet registered marriage followed by a quick traditional ceremony.
While sorting out family issues after love, friendship was placed on the back burner. She couldn't share this with her friend who was working in a different city. By the time the news reached Dhriti it was over 6 months. Ananya was in a different city and she did not have her new number. There was e-mail but there was also the ego. Dhriti was surprised but not any more than she was hurt. She was happy for her friend and told herself that there must have been 'reasons' for her friend's behavior. She assumed Ananya wanted the space and maintained her distance. She did miss their friendship.
Three years later Dhriti was back in her hometown for a trip. While at the supermarket she ran into Ananya's mother. She was happy to see Dhriti and inquired about her life, she was also gushing about her new little grandson - Luv. Dhriti was delighted to hear about Ananya's baby. She asked for her phone and decided to let bygones be bygones... she had to speak with her friend. That evening she dialed her friend as thought's about what her Ananya might say or how she would react ran through her mind.
"Hello Ananya! How's your baby doing?" is what she managed to speak as Ananya answered the call. "Hello, umm Sorry... Who's this?"
"I knew you wouldn't recognise my voice. Still Do you want to guess?"
"Your voice is soo familiar!.. I'm just not able to recollect"
"Its alright. Three years is a long time... I'm someone you seem to have forgotten" Dhriti smiled and sighed as she said this.
"It you Dhriti! OH MY GOD! Its You! I'd recognize that smile anyday."
"How have you been? And how's the baby Luv?"
"Umm I'm good. Luv is learning to stand... How have you been?"
"Why did you not call me? I was always happy for you... "
"Dhriti... I'm Sorry! Really, I can't tell you how many times I thought of calling you but only stopped because I was afraid you'd be upset. I missed you and then it seemed like it was too late.. It seemed awkward to call you. I didn't know what to say... I'm really sorry!" Ananya paused to fight back her tears.
"Yeah, you should be. Well you can apologize every week till the rest of your life every time you call me" Tears welled up in her eyes as she said this. She knew Ananya was truly sorry. She was still the same person and nothing seemed to have changed.
The rest of the conversation was alright. They spoke for two whole hours like they had never stopped talking and this was just another of the regular phone calls. They met the following week are now in touch and very much at peace with each other.
Sometimes its as easy as picking up a phone call to clear misapprehensions. How many times do we actually do it?
